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Anonymous
Jun. 21, 2004 7:47 am
Be cautious young bucks cuz you're always so eager to "share" when you're first falling "in love" and everything is new but the time will come sooner than you think when you'll realize that you didn't have to give up all that info to have a close relationship.

In fact, you'll find exactly the opposite. Keeping a little mystery goes a long way and her not knowing every detail about every chick you fucked in your past will give her less ammo when she starts giving you shit about going out without her or coming home late after drinking with your buddies.

I know right now you're thinking that this doesn't apply to you because that's not the kind of relationship you have but just wait and see.

The moral of the story is, keep the juicy details to yourself and if you're still with this chick when you're 50 share it with her then.

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jellybrown
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Joined: Sep. 05, 2002 12:30 am
From: South El Monte
Gender: Guy
Age: 40
Posts: 183

Jun. 20, 2004 8:37 pm
Hahaha,

I like the magic analogy, makes total sense. Again, she didnt bring up the topic, I did. Yeah she know about all the hot chicks I fucked in the past. Not only that she knows that I was "in love" before I met her. Does that mean I feel less for her? Not to me it doesnt.

Lets say she did have some great sex before me, so what. I know our sex life is good. im glad she had good experiances before me, it makes her a more well rounded person.

Still think its something you shouldnt talk about?

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Anonymous
Jun. 19, 2004 11:05 pm
jellyb --

here's one more... being good in the sack is kinda like being a magician. everybody wants to experience the magic, but nobody wants to know how or where you learned the tricks because that spoils it. see where i'm getting at, here?

just keep your mouth shut. your financee doesn't have to know everything about ya. you can keep a lot of shit to yourself, especially stuff that you KNOW would hurt her. think bill clinton. yeah!

adp

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Anonymous
Jun. 19, 2004 11:00 pm
i think your fiancee is having cold feet about taking the plunge, and this is her way of sabotaging your relationship. either that, or did you tell her that you were fucking paris hilton, pam anderson, and a 1000 VIVID VIDEO porn chicks before you guys hooked up? i mean, were you dating some 36DD hottie before her and is she jealous? has she met your exs or seen their pix? did you, perhaps, start this and she's getting back at you? hmmm???

adp

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Anonymous
Jun. 19, 2004 10:55 pm
yo jb --

you're in denial, dude. the only reason why your precious fiancee told you that her ex had a 20 inch dick and used to fuck her 72 hours straight was because she wants to hurt your feelings and mess with your head. any chick that would purposely make you jealous and feel sexually inadequate ain't worth your devotion. sorry, man. sometimes the truth hurts.

adp


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jellybrown
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Joined: Sep. 05, 2002 12:30 am
From: South El Monte
Gender: Guy
Age: 40
Posts: 183

Jun. 19, 2004 9:47 pm
I guess I should clarfiy (before someone who know my girl tells her im talking shit online.) This isn't something she said to me, nor something that I said to her. She and I have discussed this and we kind of agree.

I think that its OK to talk about your feelings about a past relationship. Heres why, if the person your with is so special to you that you want to share your life with them, why wouldn't you talk about past loves? I've had very exciting and wonderful relationships before I got with my current girlfriend (fiancee). Now those past relationships and past memories are not changed because of her. Just because I had a great relationship in the past does not change how great this relationship is. Yet somehow it seems like in modern relationships, were supposed to deny our past and pretend that we were absolute virgins before we got with our partners.

i would love to hear from some girls. Would you be pissed if your boyfriends told you about past loves? Why?

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Anonymous
Jun. 19, 2004 4:39 pm
yep. be upset. your chickie is hurting you by purposely making you jealous and messing with your head. not cool. not cool at all... consider dumping this broad before she dumps you!

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jellybrown
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Joined: Sep. 05, 2002 12:30 am
From: South El Monte
Gender: Guy
Age: 40
Posts: 183

Jun. 19, 2004 11:35 am
OK so picture this...

So you’re lying in bed with your significant other, just kind of talking about your days, you life, whatever. Suddenly he/she starts talking about there ex. He/she tells you what a great relationship it was, how happy they were, how great the sex was, etc...

My question: should you be upset? Would you get jealous? If so, why?



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