Joined: Sep. 05, 2002 12:30 am From: South El Monte Gender: Guy Age: 40 Posts: 183
Oct. 07, 2004 2:40 pmNo not at all ( i was actually worried that someone was going to take it that way)
The reason why I ask is because if your a young guy, I wonder why you want a girlfriend. I'm 27 now and I've seen alot of my friends who hooked up with their "high school sweetheart". I know they are happy, but to be honest I feel like alot of them missed out on some great experiances because they got tied down way to young. Plus when you have a serious relationship at a young age, its kind of based on alot of bullshit.
Take time to think, are you the kind of guy who wants to fall in love and be with "the" girl? Or are you looking to live life and have some experiances? From my experiance, I can tell you that their is no "one" girl. You will eventually fall in love and want to be with someone long term, but you have no way of knowing who that will be. It could be your dream girl and it could be your fuck buddy. Good luck man
here we go. i'm being serious here... right now, i'm involved with 2 chicks -- one i really like and one i'm kinda just screwin' around with. and, by the way, neither of them know about the other, which is good!!! anyways, i'm not sure if the one i really like is ever gonna happen and why spend nights alone when you don't have to, ya know? however, the one i'm just kinda screwin' around with is really really really starting to take "our relationship" seriously and i don't want to hurt her because she's pretty cool... BUT, if the one i really like does happen for me, i'd drop the other in a new york heartbeat. hey, are you following this??? besides, i'm sort of worried that the one i really like is going to find out that i'm fucking someone else, and that she's going to get really turned off...
so, should i:
a) give up on the chick i have the hots for and just keep my fuck-buddy as my fuck-buddy, nothing more?
b) dump my fuck-buddy because i have the hots for another chick who'll i'll probably never hook-up with?
c) elevate my fuck-buddy to "my girlfriend" because she's a sure thing, even though i'd rather fuck someone else?
d) give up on chicks altogether because they'll probably find out about each other and this will all end badly and i'll be back to stroking on friday nites to my paris hilton dvd?
e) keep things as they are?